Beloved,
God asks us not to compare ourselves with anyone. Our experiences with GOD and with life are unique and we all have unique purposes. So it will be useless to compare a sweet pear with a sweet orange. Though both are fruit, they each have their distinct taste yet provide nourishment to those who eat them. So also our unique lives are to produce fruits that others can benefit from. So focus on you, be the pear or apple or orange GOD has made you to be and produce your own fruit without worrying about what that other person is doing, producing or experiencing.
2 Corinthians 10:12
12 We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise.
Galatians 6:4
4 Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else.