So what should be on our minds? What should we carry around with us all day? What should we talk about all day and night?
Definitely not anger, irritation, bitterness, malice. And definitely not talking gossip and bad or mad words about that person or the other regardless of what they’ve done.
God’s words should be on our hearts and minds. And it is Him that all of our conversations should be about. So if you want more of God or His blessings and peace well then change your attitude, mind and words and align them to God and His word.
Deuteronomy 11:18-21
18 Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.
19 Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
20 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates,
21 so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land the Lord swore to give your ancestors, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth.